This is one thing most people do these days. Sex with people without being in a romantic relationship. One night stands, booty calls, fuck buddies, and other things that represent emotionless physical sexual encounters with people that are under the category of casual sex Socially this is glorified and try to justify casual sex so they can "Be better" within a real relationship in the future. Even though to me, I believe sex is meant for people with long term relationships, what is your view on casual sex? Do you do it yourself perhaps? Any good justifications for performing these actions?

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@Kaioshin
And you talk out your ass ALL THE TIME. Vent, chat, and threads. You never attempt to backup ANYTHING you say just spew out opinions. Most the things I say, I CAN back up! Also, I wrote this thread so I can see if someone can truly back up casual sex and if their is any good reasons, because from what I researched it's more cons then pros.

You done talking out your ass yet, because your prepubescent style of talking and lack of thinking (see sluts in school 2nd post) is very annoying.
I actually can prove you're just a troll and all you do is instigate and cause problems. I can go through pretty much ANY of your posts and verify what I say is accurate. You're just another J-Boel to me and I don't mind being a crusader once again and regulate you trolls.

Face it child, Vic will not show you some T&A(that's the only reason your here and many of the old "non Ipower rangers" vent people can prove that) so why the hell are you constantly here setting yourself up for failure against me? All you ever did and will ever do is talk out your ass unless you finally grow up.
The meaning of sex has different meanings for different people.
It is pretty complicated stuff, so there is no easy answer.

But one thing I can guarantee you. That if you follow the path of only having sex with someone you are married too or really love, you will either have no girlfriend at all or your girlfriend will leave you for someone that does not think like this. I am not telling to go around and have sex with anyone. Be selective but do not restrain you so much that you kill all sexual tension in your relationship because you want to save it for the one.
Personally, casual sex is fine for pleasure but when there's no connectivity on other levels (socially, spiritually) it just seems to me pretty primitive. Then again that's fine but I'd prefer to find someone I adore on all levels before wanting to have sex, other than that its just testosterone telling you what to do. People are different, so do what you wanna do but within reason.
Hey casual sex might be better than none right??
No sex always end in people getting very frustrated and getting increased unrealistic expectancies of future potential partners. Most potential partners will actually walk with a big arc around these people since they are emitting a desperate need of having sex, even when they pretend not to need it.

If you are a single adult and have not had sex for a very long time, I can only advice you to set aside your principles and go for a one night stand if you get a choice so your feet touch back the ground and your expectations become realistic. Of course be very selective and do make sure that you are protected.
Haha. You want to know my expectations? A girl who doesn't drink or do drugs... and doesn't have borderline health problems brought upon themselves.... That is shooting very high in THESE days. I mean the first 2 =P
Women doing drugs is also somethig I avoid.

Also a girl that has a hobby to do one night stands, swinging and sex parties. Not because she does that but of the increased risk of getting a STD, and the passion in the sex gets so routine that I am just one in the 100 others she has. Nice for her hobby but she has 99 others she can have sex with, I do not need her and she does not need me.

The big difference here is that I do not condemn her acting, just I choose not to go with her interest.
Yeah I forgot to throw in that "hobby" as part of the expectations. I mean even with that added, my expectations are not that high.
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ROFl That is a good one Glitch!
Abuse Love and you will Never Experience True Love! People who do this sort of things are Waste. Sorry, but its True. Their main reason is Pleasure... Short Term Pleasure. Dont sacrifice your Long Term Happiness for this, its not worth it.

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