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Friendship Between a man and a woman !
Do u think that there can be a friendship between a man and a woman !?
Many of my friends say it doesnt exist .. What do u think ? ^^
Many of my friends say it doesnt exist .. What do u think ? ^^
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Permalink Reply by Alex on -
I think it does but that alot of idiots (My parents lol) tease you and make life unbearable. But it definitely exists
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Permalink Reply by Derek on -
As I see it,definitely. All types of bonds between two humans Friendship,Love,Hatred or even Jealousy can exist regardless of gender.The Catch to this is,society is slowly realizing that human emotions See No Gender
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Permalink Reply by Olaf on -
A ráther silly question,
silly question requires silly answer,
*aura of silliness*
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Permalink Reply by Daniel13 on -
Ok .. But in most cases ( that i know ) someone starts to like the other one more than a friend .. What happens then ?! :p
thats why also many friendship between a man and a woman cannot exist!!!
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Permalink Reply by Planning4aCrash on -
Your friends must be very insecure about their sexuality, if they can't have friendship with somebody from the opposite sex. That is very sad. If you feel uncomfortable round girls, just have a quick wank before seeing them to get rid of the sexual tension, then your mind should be a bit clearer, and just get used to being in that non-sexual state of mind!!
I think the media has a lot to do with it, with so much flesh and so many sexual scenes on TV, on the newspaper stand, just literally everywhere, we've lost part of our humanity. We've lost the ability to not see our opposite in a non-sexual way. This is by design so that we don't form the bonds of friendship that create communities where people stand for each other against the rule of law and the establishment when its unjust.
Also, you are less likely to find a girlfriend, because, most true sexual relationships begin platonically and will grow in intensity as you get emotionally closer. Often by you being attentive to her needs. It is impossible to be attentive to her needs whilst you are obsessing about your sexual desires. This is one of the main reasons why men remain single. You know that, women remain aloof and shy to test men. To test whether they will be caring and work hard to discover and meet their needs. If women act like this around you, you may think you are miles away from scoring a date, but, nothing could be further from the truth. Just, get focused, and try shaking off some of the conditioning from the soft porn that permeates our society.
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Permalink Reply by Dean on -
although your post is interesting planning4acrash, i think youve missed the point
"Also, you are less likely to find a girlfriend, because, most true sexual relationships begin platonically and will grow in intensity as you get emotionally closer."
is exactly what were talking about.
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Permalink Reply by Daniel13 on
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Yep . Thats the point .. U start seeing them as your friends ... U are a having a great time together... and as u get to know them better u start being emotionally closer and u want more than friendship..!
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Permalink Reply by azra on -
yes. I love my friends love love love them. they are the best ego boosters, worst critics (don't eat that you'll get fat and yes, your behind looks huge in that) and they've spoiled me rotten. and they know there's no way in hell there can be something more between us.
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Permalink Reply by Dean on
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do they know that? maybe you just think they know that so you dont have to think about it? im just saying, of course i could be wrong, but you might be suprised.
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