As I see it,definitely. All types of bonds between two humans Friendship,Love,Hatred or even Jealousy can exist regardless of gender.The Catch to this is,society is slowly realizing that human emotions See No Gender
Your friends must be very insecure about their sexuality, if they can't have friendship with somebody from the opposite sex. That is very sad. If you feel uncomfortable round girls, just have a quick wank before seeing them to get rid of the sexual tension, then your mind should be a bit clearer, and just get used to being in that non-sexual state of mind!!
I think the media has a lot to do with it, with so much flesh and so many sexual scenes on TV, on the newspaper stand, just literally everywhere, we've lost part of our humanity. We've lost the ability to not see our opposite in a non-sexual way. This is by design so that we don't form the bonds of friendship that create communities where people stand for each other against the rule of law and the establishment when its unjust.
Also, you are less likely to find a girlfriend, because, most true sexual relationships begin platonically and will grow in intensity as you get emotionally closer. Often by you being attentive to her needs. It is impossible to be attentive to her needs whilst you are obsessing about your sexual desires. This is one of the main reasons why men remain single. You know that, women remain aloof and shy to test men. To test whether they will be caring and work hard to discover and meet their needs. If women act like this around you, you may think you are miles away from scoring a date, but, nothing could be further from the truth. Just, get focused, and try shaking off some of the conditioning from the soft porn that permeates our society.
Yep . Thats the point .. U start seeing them as your friends ... U are a having a great time together... and as u get to know them better u start being emotionally closer and u want more than friendship..!
yes. I love my friends love love love them. they are the best ego boosters, worst critics (don't eat that you'll get fat and yes, your behind looks huge in that) and they've spoiled me rotten. and they know there's no way in hell there can be something more between us.
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