im getting kinda mad because there is this girl i realy like. i have done everything right and stuff but she just wont like me back. she only want to be friends but i just get sader and sader how do i overcome the pain?

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If I where you I would've love on with my life, and get past it.
Do you have a lot of friends already?

If so, why do you need one that's just going to put you through emotional hell every time you see them?

If not, I don't know what else to tell you except... refer to the previous question.

Don't try to meddle with the friend zone. Those are dark forces. And they rarely ever work in the attracted one's favor.
thank for the help it has gonne much better now :)
Glad to hear it :)
Aaah, I've been in similar situations too. One time I can give you - next time when you meet a girl, and you're interested in a serious relationship with her, try avoiding the.... friend zone *dunn dun dunnnnnn*.
There does seem to be a lot of very negative talk about the 'friend zone'. Not really sure why but then I'm not particularly experienced in this field.

To be in a serious relationship with someone, surely you need to be friends with them. No matter how attracted you both are to eachother, if you aren't friends then what kind of relationship is it?

I guess the 'friend zone' means that you are considered a friend and could never be considered anything else. But just because you are friends with somebody does not mean you could never be considered anything more or that you should not consider anything more.
There is no friend zone. If someone says they want to be your friend, it just means they are not sexually attracted to you. THE END
The last few times I went on dates, I got the friend line. I told them I have plenty of friends already. I'm still not talking to them, but then, I'm not going through hell trying to be more than friends with them (or remembering I want to be). I'd say it's a net gain for me (experience) and a net loss for them (a good guy slipped through their fingers).

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