I am 25 years old, but I even don't know what is love? Why I love someone who doesn't love me ?

And when love came to knock at the door of my heart, I told to myself I can't love. Why?

Why someone comes to let me dump and then walk away?

I want to love and to be loved. Why all these so though?

Is it what God try to test me ,because I am a daughter of him, he want me to be powerful to deal with the feeling of heart breaking?

I weep for myself ,but there is no tear.

Who can save me? I feel terrible now.

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Comment by Demi on October 12, 2010 at 1:17pm
I can't open it.
Comment by Demi on October 12, 2010 at 1:20pm
the same
Comment by Demi on October 12, 2010 at 1:28pm
Is it a song? And what is love on earth?
Comment by Demi on October 12, 2010 at 1:30pm
I wanna cry.
Comment by Demi on October 12, 2010 at 1:38pm
That is very kind of you. I appreciate it. We will talk latter .
Comment by Danface on October 13, 2010 at 7:13am
'love' is a word that makes us feel just that liiiiittle bit more attached to a person without anything much changing ^^ and by 'anything much' i mean... by submitting to the phrase 'i love you', the thing changing is your own perceived strength of whatever bond you already have, so long as you believe that is <3... and although it sounds stupid, i don't see that i'd behave all too differently ^^ so long as you got 'da moves' to back up 'da lingo', aight? i'd do an 'ie'... but none of this has helped so far hmm :| blehhhhok ^^ what i'm meaning to say is... 'love' as a concept goes far beyond an individual simply believing they love another, it has all to do with expression, no single word can account for that. (none of this was directed at your situation specifically, just... stating my take on 'love' ^^)

you wouldn't be the only one in the world finding themselves unrequited btw :) in the end... above all... the well known lil'idiom 'There are plenty of fish in the sea' should be remembered ^^ there is no one single person who will fulfill all of your needs... there are so many different people of all kinds :) on top of which is our ability / willingness to adapt in certain situations, if you don't find a successful relationship in one person... don't go thinking there won't be a next :)
also, you pushed somebody away who claimed they loved you??? isn't that the exact thing you're afraid of experiencing yourself? :) i'm not trying to make you feel bad, though it may be worth taking a look at how this other person handled the situation... did they break down and give up, or did they overcome the rejection in face of the reality that...... 'life goes on', and it just isn't worth falling into a pit of sorrow that... serves no real purpose other than to express your dissatisfaction... a dissatisfaction which in itself ^^ can be avoided, and holds no benefit other than to relieve negative emotions (which again ^^ can be avoided).

question: what is the point in feeling terrible??
Comment by Demi on October 13, 2010 at 4:51pm
After a night thinking, I found out love is just feeling of safe which we trust it can protect us from hurt.It works because we think that love is real thing. Right? My point of view is that love is nothing and nonentity, so when a lover walking away, what we need to do is telling ourselves that we will are gettiing stronger sooner or later and make ourselves felt safe. We are ourselves without lover right now.
What we trying to say is just like Danface said, 'there are so many different people of all kinds ", it means that your Mr. Right is there waiting for you all the time.
Thanks God, Misfortune may be an actual blessing. Yes,Behind bad luck comes good luck.
Comment by Demi on October 13, 2010 at 4:59pm
Thanks for what Frozen Flame said, "I just want you to know for now, that that feeling you have is actually one kind of FEAR, and that fear is based on some things that are not actually real, but your mind thinks they are, and it thinks you are gonna to die because it's adjusted for cavemen times." , which let me conquer my fear of losing feeling of love. Thanks again.
Comment by z-man on October 13, 2010 at 9:30pm
Love is for everyone something different.
What I do know is that what people call love is not love at al. That love is impossible to exist in reality only in the movies. Interesting is that the real love is very much unnoticed by many people. It is staring in the face but they don't see it.
Comment by Chris B on October 13, 2010 at 11:36pm
you guys are making this seem more complicated than it really is. love is a strong positive emotion toward somebody or something the opposite of hate. you have never been in love that's why. love is not something you can choose, it's a not a thing you can ignore either. you just have to find that special someone. love is not something you can make or force either, love just happens. love like in the movies does happen in real life all the time. to be able to experience love you have to take a leap of faith, let your guard down. take a chance.

that's all nothing else to it, no need for big words or weird theories, metaphors. just go out and meet people.

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